Ah, what a wonderful feeling it is to set goals and actually accomplish them! It makes us feel extremely good, happy, and proud, especially when obstacles may have befallen us along the way. And indeed, God also wants us to be happy and rejoice in our hard work. (Ecclesiastes 5:18-20) Yet, He also makes us aware that things do not always go as planned. (Ecclesiastes 9:11) I, personally, can relate to this fact as I am sure that most, if not all, of you can as well.
For instance, before I retired almost ten months ago, I had set some major spiritual and personal goals that I planned to work toward. Everything was mapped out and going as planned until about a month and a half before my retirement when Mama’s health began to drastically decline. However, while helping my siblings to care for her, I still kept my eyes focused on my goals and had every intention of still pursuing them.
With God’s help and the support and encouragement of my family and friends, I made it to retirement. But Mama’s health steadily declined more and more–to the point where her kidneys shut down, and she came close to dying just as she had two times previously but relating to a different illness. Thankfully, she got to the hospital just in time and underwent emergency surgery to undergo kidney dialysis. Now, she is on dialysis three days a week and still also has other previous ongoing health issues. One of the many blessings about my now being retired is that I can do so much more for her–and yes, I do consider being able to help take care of my mama in her golden years to be a blessing and not a burden.
Needless to say, I have had to make alterations to some of my plans. But I am happy to say that I have not had to abandon them altogether (but even if I have to, that will be okay because my family is so much more important to me.) I am now able to accomplish things that I never even imagined I would, and I have not lost my joy and zest for life. I am a firm believer that sometimes when one door closes, God opens another, thereby helping us to see the rays of sunshine that await us there. Whether or not we walk through it is up to us.
So what about you? Have you ever had to alter or change your course due to some unforeseen occurrence in your life? If so, how did you deal with it? You know, acceptance is key when it comes to the things in our lives we cannot change. No, it does not mean that we just throw up our hands and say we give up, but it is realizing and coming to terms with the fact that we cannot control everything that happens in our lives. However, we can control (as difficult as it may be) how we react to the situation. This is what both Darryl and his wife Catina must do in my book IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH.
Well, I hope you are having a great day. Best to you and yours. And remember–HAPPY READING!
As always, this is from my heart to yours! 🙂
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